LIFE MANUAL Part 1

The post today comes early because my class was cancelled...yaaay!! First and foremost, i want to start by thanking my loyal readers...i see you (Feels like i just accepted an Emmy) lol. Anyway today i want to talk about the one thing that makes us God's special creation, Relationships. We all blame Adam and Eve for eating that fruit...the first relationship failure according to most of us but i am so sure that most of you would have done the same thing as much as you would never admit it. But now that it already happened, very little can be done to correct that. However, it is notable we were left with so many relationship problems that psychologists have tried to explain to you time and time again in books and the internet. So lets be real, do we have a problem in our relationships? Hell yeah!! So this life manual post wants to diagnose the cause of this big issue amongst us. In my own opinion i think when we were kids it seemed a lot easier because we valued every single relationship that came our way but as we advanced to being teenagers...movies wrecked us to the point we based our own identities on one relationship...the boyfriend/girlfriend kind of thing going on which eventually led to many self-esteem issues but that's a story for another day.
I don't know about you but i have seen so many of my friends push away their crew members when they meet that special person because of the "you are my world" view. Don't get me wrong, i know that tingly feeling takes over so fast especially if you have been single for a while, its all magic...huh? What you don't realize is that life cannot revolve around just one relationship...it needs multiple relationships and sadly by the time this hits you, shit has already hit the roof. If you are lucky enough to have the understanding kind of friends, they will embrace you and be there  for you all through.

I know what is going through your mind right now, what inspired me to write this...Well, i never like putting myself on the spot but lets just say i learnt it the hard way very recently and lets leave it there because my mum reads my blog from time to time for support purposes. ( I love you Mummy) lol. But you get the whole picture, right? RELATIONSHIPS OVER A RELATIONSHIP!!! You can thank me later.
So many young people go through relationship issues and until we accept that there is a need to integrate all our relationships and give them all the attention needed, we will remain searching for answers on google. Questions like, "Why is he being so distant?" and "Why does she take so long to reply my texts?" would not be having priority on google search if we invested in our relationships...
I hope i made sense to at least one or two of you loves. Keep your eye open for Life Manual part two where i will give a comprehensive breakdown of how AI's (Artificial Intelligence) influence our relationships.