SIDE-LINER...Yay? or Nay?

Hey loves I hope you missed me because I missed you. I know I said I would post part two of the Life Manual on Friday...am sorry I did not keep that promise but let's just say it's a work in progress...AI's have more information than I had anticipated. Anyway, I have something even better for you today and I hope you enjoy the read. I love challenging your imagination so here goes...I want you to dig real deep into your imagination and think about your life as a movie, a series of some sort. Would it make an interesting reality show or would it be cancelled the minute it aired? Would it be similar to another person's life story or would it be an all-time original saga? Just think about it...are you living your life to your ultimate fullest or are you a victim of plagiarizing someone else's? Well in this post i want to explore the main driving forces that make us live our lives on the sidelines hence the title!!

So, did you know 70% of the choices we make everyday are not inspired by our own minds? Well if you did...props for that piece of valuable knowledge.However, i believe that this is a good thing because if it was the other way round...the world we live in would not even exist. I have a friend who got me thinking about how amazing it would be to watch our lives from the sidelines like every once in a while. (I know i have weird friends) lol. He explained it in such a way he almost got me convinced...let me try and explain it the way he did.
"Let's say you were invisible for a day like your day off the real world and nobody knows that it is your day off. Just imagine, you get to walk around and just see how people you know act when you are not around and you see all the backstabbing that you hear about ...as in you will be there when they are actually doing it, sounds cool...huh?"
I think I have tried to summarize it as much as I could...trust me, it was a long conversation/argument. At first I was extremely skeptical and I did not support the idea but after thinking about it for like two weeks, it made sense. For those who have forgotten the name of this blog...the dynamic changes of life are the main driving forces that make us want to emulate others. Remaining stagnant gives us a sense of comfort and a false sense of security. This being said, it is definitely a 'side-liner nay' for me. Yes the thought may sound fun but let us be real...the thrill of the unknown drives us to look forward to the future so count me out on that invisible day off. Besides, there is already someone who watches it all from the side-lines but that is a story for another day.
Our lives are way cooler than any blockbuster movie and if you do not believe that, I guess you should quit living a risk-free life. You want to sky-dive...go do it ASAP. You want to participate in a championship...go do it!These young bodies will get old sooner than you think. This being my birthday month, I am living everyday like it is my last day (the world hasn't gotten enough of me though so do not worry). Change all that worry to an opportunity, all that fear to constructive risks and at the end of the day you will be happy...exhilarated..and you will most definitely thank me. C'mon, live as if you are starring in your reality show that is on top of the charts. You have the remote to your life so use it wisely! We may not have the chance to have a side-liner experience but you can always recreate your day's events and always make them worth the memory.That's it for today loves!! Have a great week. **kisses