FINE WINE

Okay...I have missed you guys so much. Y'all are making me an addict of digressing on this blog but oh well I ain't complaining. Today I want us to talk about those little moments we all have dishing out advice to people around you. Let's be real, as much as we avoid seeking advice, we have been on both extreme ends...the 'doctor' and the 'patient'. So why call this post fine wine? Well because I believe that with time, our advice becomes better just like fine wine...don't you think?
According to me there are three types of 'advice givers'.
Category #1: The Ish-Ish.
You know them as those guys who are always unsure of what they say to you when you are in a dilemma. At the end of it all they make you feel like there is absolutely no difference between you shutting up and talking to him/her about it. You know someone in this category, huh?
Category #2: The IDK.
Those who finish their advice with the words "I don't know though" (i dont know about you but I am the villain in this category). Well most of the people in this category (I included) do this because they don't want you to come back saying they ruined your life so they keep it safe.
Category #3: The Hardcore Voice.
These are those people who tell it as it is. All that painful truth one has been avoiding is put out in the advice. They have the ultimate voice of reason and may keep your mind reeling on and on afterwards. I guess we all step into this one once in a while. But the problem with these people is that more often than not  they do not take their own advice. 

So now that I have told you the categories of advisers, let's discuss a little before I conclude. How many times do you actually take your own advice? Not so often huh? Worry not you are not alone. In my opinion I think all these people should embrace all those traits and live on with it because every fine wine in the world has been created with grapes from different vineyards. In the same way, our diversity in our intellect builds us to be greater people. So what am I saying? There are some dilemmas that just need you to shut up about it when giving advice and there are those that call onto your inner psychologist and you have to tell it as it is. I know this is a blog that talks about change but there are some things that should just be taken as they are. However, people should now start dishing out advice that they would take in themselves. We have been in this game too long so let's  value our own lil pieces of advice. Remember that all we do as individuals should propel us further so people like I on the IDK category are here for a reason so, don't shun us away we will graduate to the next level in no time...yeah? That's all I had for today but before I go, a lil shoutout to those who have been pushing me to keep on blogging is long overdue. Hope and Naj Geraurahia!! lol Sean I see you..lol Arnold Life Manual part 2 is coming next week no worries, Miriam darling...I will be more consistent and my dearest cousins the love has been felt...we are all conquering this world one day at a time do not be left behind!! **kisses**